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You can’t force yourself to be cute, but you have to make an effort to get a guy to like you. And while all guys like short skirts and stockings with garters by default, it is shortsighted to bet on sexuality. The age of emotion born out of an erection is short. Let’s talk about what, besides good sex, makes a lasting impression on a man.
Take it and like it: what you need to be
“I want a guy to like me,” the desire is plain and simple. Take it and like it, win a man. Any girl can do it by pumping herself up on a few points.
Not sure if the man is communicating only with you. Check his social networks with help and find out the truth. By analyzing your competitors you will be able to show your best side.
Take care of yourself
Let’s agree that unshaven armpits, cellulite and other attributes of natural beauty – for a narrow circle of connoisseurs. The vast majority of guys like clean hair, smooth legs and light makeup – mascara will open your eyes, balm will make your lips more sensual and highlighter will hide traces of fatigue. Exercise a couple of times a week to keep your body toned.
Have a style.
You can’t go far on grooming alone. Everyone runs to the salon. You have a crowd of “well-groomed” to stand out, and stands out, usually charisma – his own style, his point of view, aura of mystery. How to develop your charisma? Learn to dream (and read), get out of the captivity of prejudice, start an unusual hobby. Combined with courage and responsibility it will make you charismatic aka Joan of Arc.
There’s nothing asexual and unattractive as a dissatisfied face, whining and complaining, guys are sure. They, who shouldered the burden of survival in the name of reproduction, after the exhausting hunt for money and fame, want to duck into a warm, soft and positive. A smile on your face is more valuable than professional makeup.
Turn on the “hostess.”
The strong connection between the stomach and the heart of men has not been canceled. Do not know what to do if you really like a guy – invite him to dinner. Cooked by your hands steak and ironed the morning shirt can not not like (specify how cooked steak).
A girl who knows how to listen, appreciate and praise is worth her weight in gold. Guys need the dope of nice and inspiring words just as much as they need sex. Have you heard about how behind every great man is a great woman? Women muses don’t just like them. They become a necessity in life, and that’s an order of magnitude greater than just liking someone.
As an appetizer, a simple and accessible technique by which you can draw the attention of any man without exception. This is flirting, that is, a wide package of verbal and non-verbal means of seduction (compliments, stroking the hair, ajar mouth). flirting girls like instantly – against nature you can not argue.
In principle, this is enough to please a guy and even make him fall in love. Groomed, smiling and flirting girl can not help but like. Unlike the one below.
The opinion that infantile girls cause guys to want to care should be relegated to the category of myths. Irresponsible, surly young ladies at best cause a smile. Condescending, of course. In a trend for a long time caring, purposeful and independent women who are and a horse on a horseback and in a burning house. And yet, include a little girl and want to handle periodically to stimulate his masculinity.
No one makes you cook at haute cuisine, but to cook eggs, wipe the dust and throw things in the washer you just have to. On the other hand, history knows a lot of examples when the “maids-kittens” (and cross stitch, and bake pies) are left out of the male attention, and slobs – entwined with a crowd of admirers. But today we are discussing how a guy is likely to like her, not as an exception.
A favorite female pastime of “brainwashing” among guys tops the list of negative female traits. If a guy does not meet your expectations or does not fulfill your desires (did not call, did not give a gift, overdrinking) – this is not a reason to arrange a large-scale, protracted and exhausting scandal. Get this straight – a guy can have more important things to do than you, as well as his own opinion on any subject.
A boring sex life is a way for a guy to dislike you with 99% probability. Boring sex ruins couples who have eaten a pound of salt and gone through fire and water. Nascent feelings boring sex will destroy at the root. Remember – the initiative in this matter is not only not punishable, but encouraged and even rewarded.
Bad girl can be turned on in bed. At a restaurant, eat steak with a knife and fork. When talking, don’t interrupt, but listen. Use a handkerchief when you sneeze. Cover your mouth with your hand when you yawn. Do not pick your nose. Don’t swear. Be a well-mannered girl, because the vast majority of guys like ladies after all, not unbridled, vulgar or femme fatale.
A special case of bad manners – “battle paint.” Dark lipstick, bright eye shadow, a “mask” of foundation and powder leave it for a meeting with your girlfriends. They will surely appreciate, in contrast to the guys who are – for the naturalness. By the way, what we girls call a highlighter, guys usually take for a “sweat. And they’re willing to put up with the imperfections of our skin so they don’t get their shirts dirty about the “plaster.”
Can words be more effective than scarlet lipstick or juicy steak? After all, it was the word in the beginning. And how do “broadsheets” make teeth? Or do sales texts sell? Words, whether spoken or written, elicit an emotional response, and emotion is exactly what we need.
What to write to a guy you like to draw attention to yourself and immerse you in a vortex of experiences and feelings? Here are some fundamental rules for effective correspondence.
Keep it positive
Remember the optimism guys need? So write positively, instead of discussing the financial crisis (global and personal) and mental nerdiness (“life has no meaning”).
Not just sex, but correspondence shouldn’t be dull. Change the subject (but do not bounce like a flea from topic to topic), talk about different things (of course, nice), make your point. In general, create an image of a girl with a broad outlook. Fortunately, you can always turn to Google for help-learn something new and share the news (“They say the Higgs boson will destroy the universe!”).
With text, sell it. Unobtrusively emphasize your virtues. The key word is unobtrusive. Not outright – “Komsomol member, athlete, and just a beauty,” but casually – “was doing yoga in the park and witnessed this scene. Or, “I think about you even when I’m at the gym.
The light is not a wedge.
Don’t put him at the center of your life. Even if he happens to be (has become the center of your universe), don’t put him in charge. Form an image of a girl with a variety of hobbies. “I’m sorry I can’t give you as much time as I’d like. But I’m just torn – work, fitness, helping homeless animals. And I can’t not communicate with you – you’re unique and interesting!” Unique and interesting, I assure you, will look like you.
Before you send.
What is written with a pen, you can’t cut with an axe. Once you hit “send,” there’s no going back. All mistakes, bad jokes, and taboo will go down in history. First, think about it. Then write it. Reread it, and then send it in.
It’s enough to hook a guy’s attention to your remarkable online persona. By the way, correspondence is the perfect tool to help you in a situation where a guy you like isn’t paying attention. Find his account on social networks and hunt in the chat, impressing with intelligence (thanks, Google) and versatile personality.
Whether a guy likes you or not: How do you know if he likes you?
The results of the shock pickup will tell you…
A look. Any guy will tell you, looking into the eyes of a girl you like is still a challenge. If he looks shy, averts his eyes or can’t tear his gaze away, he’s hooked.
Initiative. Guy persistently initiates communication for two reasons – either he wants something from you, or he really likes you. If he has nothing to take from you, then he likes you.
Self-promotion. Obviously, if a guy picks up a guitar or, after seeing the bar, demonstrates the strength of his biceps – all trying to show their best side – definitely wants to please. And that means he likes you.
Tactile Contact. If he likes you, he’ll want to be closer to your body. And until it comes to the bed, will make contact with you in any way available – touching your hand, picking up crap off your clothes, or piling on you on the couch when you’re sitting for a visit.
Want to practice the art of pleasing? Sign up on any dating portal and collect fans. And in general, rock the skill of liking people in any situation. Remember, right? Watch yourself, flirt, smile. Good luck!